Change is always good, don't be afraid of change. You’ve started 2018 full of determination and positivity – of course you have. “This is absolutely the year I stop destroying myself and change my ways.” Sound familiar? That’s understandable – it does feel like a starting point after all. The new year gives us the notion that after one night, one will stop drinking, gambling or using drugs. But habits do not simply go away after one night; they are built up over time and it takes real time to change them. Simply stating “I will do X, Y or Z after the new year” isn’t enough – it still takes time and effort to accomplish that goal.